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Published: 06 October 2023

Yes, I called my Bro to the Police Station to do some counseling … but it hasn’t helped much. Our family is like 50 year old little kids. They enjoy good food, making fun of each other, cracking jokes … just like we did in school … but none of them have any idea of how to manage any issue that is beyond high school.

Its not that my bros and sisters are bad people … they just don’t know how to handle anything complicated. They either get authoritarian or greedy and selfish or just rely on yelling and shouting at each other if things don’t go their way.

If they did this in school then it was manageable … now, they are grown up and their activities are affecting lives, properties and crores of rupees. Doing things that break the law is simply criminal … this is something that they are not understanding.

Sisters infuriating Bros
The key trouble makers in the house are sisters … they are the ones who are inciting and infuriating brothers into conflict. They are simply repeating what they did in school. They used to go to Big Bro and making line of complaints … and Big Bro is supposed to yell, scream and fight to fix the problem. Sisters would then sit and watch the show.

They are repeating the same thing now … even though it is affecting the health, lives, properties and crores of rupees of brothers involved. We are apparently supposed to beat up each other … file lawsuits against each other … throw each other in jail … and as usual … sisters will nicely sit there and watch the show.

Sisters are inviting criminal charges against themselves
They think that like morons … we brothers will fight, sue each other and put each other in jail. And the key criminals will enjoy creating the fight and enjoy watching the show. But all of these activities of verbal abuse, refusal to give food and medication to an old and sick mother … which amounts to attempted murder … all of these activities were originally being done by the sisters before Big Bro arrived.

So, the key people that should have criminal charges against them are the Assistant Professor and IT Manager sisters of our house … and then comes the Big Bro that supported all of their abusive and criminal activities.

Exploring all counseling options first
Before I put criminal charges on anyone … I would prefer using all counseling options so that … they can understand right from wrong and come on the right track themselves. I would prefer to settle things via counseling.

• I showed them all references from religious texts … its not working
• I showed them that all of these activities are criminal and abusive … its not working
• I tried to involve relatives to help them understand … its not working
• To the extent that I invited my Big Bro to the Police Station to control his yelling, screaming and threatening activities … still commonsense and logic is not prevailing

The next obvious step is to put criminal charges on our Assistant Professor and IT Manager sisters and Big Bro. But that’s not what I would prefer to do … since … at the end of the day … they are my own brother and sisters.

For my Bro … I am suggesting him to take counseling from someone “outside the family”. Doesn’t matter who it is … speak to someone well educated and experienced from outside the family. He is talking to ignorant people and following ignorance. He is thinking that he is right because his ignorant sisters are supporting him. He needs to talk to someone outside the box.

For my Assistant Professor Sister … she is the biggest malicious elements in the house. Prays five times a day … doesn’t understand shit what she is praying … pretends to be very religious and holy … and then uses other’s shoulders to fire her gun. Doesn’t give a shit about what is right or wrong … tries to make money off every route possible … creates chaos and enjoys the fights.

I am thinking of talking to her Principal, HOD and Staff Members … for some counseling … so that she can be pulled on the right track. She is literally burning our house down … with non-stop negativity and complaining … doing the opposite of what is legal … doing the opposite of what is religious. She is the biggest malicious player in the house.

Its not nice if I directly put criminal charges on her and she is called to the Police Station or gets arrested. So, let’s try to contain her … help her understand what is right … let’s try to stop her from burning down the house … by talking with people with whom she spends most of her time with. She is most of the time in the College and spends more time there than with us. So, obviously it will help in molding her for the better … it will avert the worse case scenarios ahead.

For my IT Manager Sister. She is actually very naïve and innocent. She is just one shoulder that our Assistant Professor uses to fire her guns. Whatever the Assistant Professor says … she will start yelling and start jumping up and down … to do all of the wrong things. She is using her as a puppet.

Just because she is a puppet … it doesn’t mean that she is totally innocent either … she is serving as the hands of all of the malice that the other one plans. I think we should talk to her HR Department for some counseling. She spends like 90% of her time in the company when compared to spending time with us. I think her company should be able to guide her … provide her with some “outside the box” thinking and decision making.

Do you know what is the recent update? Even after the guy is called to the Police Station … he doesn’t hand over my property papers to me … he is doing construction work of border walls on my property without my permission … he is yelling and screaming at me when I went to see my property. It seems I am not supposed to even come to the area where my property is. Lol.

Now what am I supposed to do … call the guy to the Police Station again … get him a lesson on how to behave in the Police Station again? I am myself embarrassed and ashamed of going to the Police Station and calling my own brother there … and this is how my Bro is.

So, I have been thinking and exploring additional “counseling options” … not only for my Bro … but also for my sisters who are creating these conflicts among brothers and burning our house down.